
Author: Sunshine
I’m an author, techie, and consultant who writes about everything from APIs to transgender issues. Five years ago I was in an accident that turned my life upside down. This blog is my attempt to share my journey, in the hopes it will help others—whether in a similar boat or another boat that’s adrift for other reasons. Our shared humanity and the struggles we must manage bind us together.


You’re not alone, and you’re so much more than you think. What we can learn from the Buddha, Jesus, and their two parables of the mustard seed

Doing anger the right way. 5 ways to handle it so it doesn’t harm you or the ones you love

Could there be anything good about having chronic illness? 9 ways people have found the positive despite all the difficulties we face

Feeling anxious, angry or despairing? Here are five ways to break the cycle and get yourself back on track

How to find meaning and purpose even when you’re suffering. A Q&A with Tom Seaman, health coach

Meditation isn’t the magic pill it’s been made out to be. 5 easy, natural ways to reduce your pain using mindfulness without meditation

Doctors gaslighting you? Treating you like a head case? Follow this 9 step plan and you’ll never end up feeling traumatized, angry or dehumanized again

The Kevin Hart cure. Five ways laughter can help you get better, no matter how hopeless, frustrated or sick you may feel
